This is why you don't succeed!

Updated: Apr 5

Hey reader!

It's amazing to attend you here.


Today you will be acknowledged on the number one #1 reason why people fail.


They keep hustling all day, all long, they know all the secrets to achieve that Success, they have all the knowledge and moreover they have that organised planning for execution of that idea but still they miss their daily targets and end up being a loser every night!


Ever wondered why this happens ?


It is lack of your self-control on your feelings!


Some renowned leaders and specialists call it Self-Discipline


Yes, even after knowing your desire, after all the hustle and pain you are not achieving your daily targets because, you are unable to say NO to your damn feelings!


You are too emotional!





and all this time, if you are thinking that you have been hustling all day for your Goals and dreams to convert them into reality then you are mis-leaded!


Yess, because your work without self-discipline is not Hustle anymore!


you have been reading motivational pages and watching damn videos on "How to succeed in life" or, "Top 10 habits of Successful people"...


you are thinking that you are doing something productive...


"huh??? Seriously..."


you are doing nothing but giving more views to those pages and youtube channels!


the hardest thing is the implementation of what you have just finished watching or, reading!


Now this is a real talk, No Bullshit!


come on buddy...man-up and think about this!


the reason you think yourself to be a loser or, defeated every night before you go to your bed is and continuously receive failures, is because you are not saying no to your feelings!


you are not saying no to the Sleep...


you are not saying no to that damn party...


you are not saying no to your friends...


you are not saying no to every damn thing that keeps you away from achieving your goals...


Let me tell you a story of a man 'Who so-called hustled!'


So there was a man who was completing his college degree.

he was pursuing Computer science engineering at one of the renowned college of the state.


being from a middle class family he always had value for money


he wanted to earn at an early stage... because he doesn't wanted to rely on his parents in terms of money


rather wanted to pay his bills by his own and

be self dependent.


Now what he needed was a constant source of income.


so he started searching on web on 'How to earn money online?'


he found few methods and now he is working on one of the method!


But he is pursuing his college of engineering as well...


How should he manage?


yess, it is a side-Hustle thing...

and he needs to give time for that


So he made a plan....

it was the month of July!

and he promised himself that by next july he would develop a constant source of income....


this was his GOAL for next one year


After attending college from 9-to-4...

Every evening and night he needs to wake up and work on his side-hustle so that his goals would be completed ...


he does it for a month...


Now there are friends of him, on one fine evening they planned for a party!

he is invited ...


he wants to go get more friends, enjoy party, talk to girls, drink beverages and dance...

have all those fun...


he said "yes!" to the party...


he spent one evening in the party came back home and straight away went to sleep because he was tired...


after few days...he met his senior...and offered him a night-out to have another party and enjoy again!


he said "yes!" because he couldn't say No to his senior!

because he would get upset on him otherwise...


another evening...more girls, alcohols his time, more friends and fun!


yes, he missed his hustle again!


Guess what next....This series of event never stopped

every month there would be a party...for no specific reason but just to have FUN!


he used to attend all of those...


even due to continuous events he lost his focus on his side-hustle

every time he was upgrading himself in the side-hustle...he was pulled down by the events which he couldn't miss...


after an year...

next july!


so what do you think? what would have happened to him?


yes, you are right!


he had no specific source of income....

he lost his yearly plan which he has set-up for himself!


he lost in himself...

he is now a LOSER...


he wasted complete one year on parties, fun and friends !



wait...wait....wait....


So you thought this would have happened ?


now lets go back...

let me tell you what actually happened!


So when his friends organised that first party...

when he was invited...


he didn't say yes! but a "No"...

he was forced buy his friends to join that party but he chose to focus on his side-hustle...


he refused to go...


on that evening of the party...he was hustling back at his place...

said NO to friends but YES to his work!


that evening he worked for 4 hours straight...

and gained more knowledge on his source of income...


he said no to his senior as well... instead his senior understood his efforts and appreciated him on that...


next time when friends came he said NO!


Guess what ???


Now every time if there would be a party, he was not even called by his friends...

sounds rude...


hell NO...

he now doesn't have any distraction and continuously focus on his side-hustle...


After an year...

next july!


he had successfully generated a source of income for himself by BLOGGING and he is now working on the next ONE!






What you just read was the power of self-discipline!


His one small effort to say NO to his every distraction comes out to be healthy for him...


Moreover he EARNS now!






he is not a loser or, defeated anymore!

he is a damn Winner...



So hay!

if you are being a loser everyday so don't worry...

if you are not winning than it doesn't mean that you can't win!

no way ...


it just means that you are poor in saying NO to your feelings and distractions!

just say NO next time without thinking what others could think of you...


yes, i agree that the guy in the above story didn't make a lot of friends but he made money!


which was his goal...


and once you are rich and successful, people themselves, will approach you.

You don't need to worry about that...



just keep hustling and say NO when needed...



and if you have been saying NO for a while then have patience now...



once you had enough patience have faith in your work...



if the work doesn't gives the required results...



just keep hustling and say NO when needed...


sorry for the rough language...

my intend was not to offend anyone...


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